I have known her for about a year. We are not friends but we are friendly. In the year that I have known her she has dated three different guys. All of these relationships last around three to four months. Every time one of them ends she says, “Well, he was an asshole.” Now, I’m not saying that these guys aren’t assholes; as my theory is all women are crazy and all guys are assholes; there are just different levels of crazy and asshole. The reason I question this girl and her inability to keep a man longer than a few months is because she is 34 years old.
She is the same age as me. Unlike me, she wants to be married and she wants to have children, so time is of the essence to her because the expiration date on this eggs is any day now. Now, this is all fine and dandy but the real thing that I find baffling is that when these relationships implode in only a several month time period, she always blames the guy for being an asshole. Usually, these guys end up seeing another girl while with her and leaving her for the other girl. Now, I would almost solely put blame on the guys if this was ten years ago and we were 24, but we are old bitches now and the guys she is dating are around our age as well. A lot of the immaturity and inane nonsense you experience in relationships with people at 24 is pretty much gone by your mid-thirties.
All of this information leads me to believe that this girl is in fact a psycho. She has to be doing something for the same scenario to be happening over and over again. By our age, she should know better than doing whatever the fuck it is she is doing or gravitating towards unavailable men. I have gleaned from several conversations that I have had with her that she would be a very time consuming girlfriend. She complains when texts are unanswered. She complains when they don’t want to spend time with her. She complains about these men all the time. You should probably not have much to complain about in the first few months of a relationship.
So either she’s a complete handful that is too high maintenance and not worth the effort which nobody our age wants to deal with or she stinks sexually which nobody our age wants to deal with.