I don’t know what it was exactly, but in conversation yesterday, my memory triggered that once upon a time a guy told me I was “sexually aggressive.” This happened years ago and I did not understand what he meant then and I still don’t.
When he initially said this to me I said, “Are you calling me a rapist?” Sexual aggressiveness seems to have a twinge of forcefulness and as the kids’ say, I’m not about that life. He never really answered my question, he just repeated that I was sexually aggressive.
I would really like an explanation. I am lost. I am aggressive as a person, a bit volatile at times, but I don’t see how this translates into a sexual realm.
I am definitely not a rapist, well, maybe a little bit by Me Too standards, but whatever, we all are a little bit guilty of that.
Oh well, looks like this question will remain unanswered and a mystery.